by Lori Ann Gonzales
The soulmate connections. The flashing stars and lights that go off when we meet a particular person giving us the feeling we've known them forever. A best friend. The person that seemingly likes almost everything we do and wants the same things as we do. The similar emotional palate, along with the added flavors of life itself. The mirror of whom we appear to be, reflecting at us—the perfect couple to outsiders as they gaze in, believing in the restored hope of love.
Perhaps it's serendipity? If we are lucky, we choose the soul life partner that makes us soar. While other soulmate relationships fulfill a cycle, ending all that was once the humanistic version of perfection. Soul connection relationships are challenging typically because one or the other gets injured. If they part ways, both will move forward into new relationships when they are ready.
Many of the soul connections have a tremendous amount of arguing, betrayal, and deception. I know what you're thinking; it sounds like most of the relationships we all have known or seen through others around us. The difference is the connection they share. From the beginning, they share a bond that seems to be uncuttable. They will both need to accomplish and complete something that gives meaning to them as an individual. Until then, there is an emotional attachment that keeps them connected. Weak, small or large, there will be some emotional attachment. Some could fear separation, anger, or guilt, while others may experience a brand new life.
Whatever that lovely couple was experiencing; it was perfect until it fell apart. One or both will usually need to rebuild what was taken or destroyed. That can include relocating, starting a new career, recalculating life as a single parent, or any significant changes, especially finances. The soul connections push us to step up and stand up for the relationship's wrongdoing and even prior. If we succeed in hitting that mark of regaining our power, it will move us into a positive new beginning.
It sounds all wonderful and rosy until the ending arrives. Soul connections can be with anyone in any area of our lives. Any relationship, i.e., a friend, lover, regular banker, boss, coworker, and others, can leave us feeling defeated. They also light a fire under us to the point we are ready to overcome something. Battling in court to fighting over who gets what, we will fight to defend ourselves—establishing a case of some kind against anyone where compensation plays a key role.
They can have many reasons or lessons attached to them and something to do with overcoming defeat programming—a weakening of our value. If we are dealing with a toxic situation, one of the two will wind up losing, and the devastation can be catastrophic for some. In debt, while the other is debt-free, alone while the other is with someone new. A sense of imbalance and, perhaps, injustice has created a loss or gain of something.
Many move into a new relationship, never seeing, repairing, or finishing what started with the previous experience. Suddenly years have gone by, and we find ourselves in a unique pattern of life. Uncomfortable and unwilling or able to make changes, we keep moving forward. Societies acclaimed the theory of "never look back," which can work if we understand the lesson.
Although they can leave us scratching our heads when we go forward, it is nothing like the twin flame experience. Now that's the soul connection that cuts us deep to the core of who we are. The scary part is, we rarely know who we are, but they do. They seem to come in the right after feeling good and ready to begin our new chapter in life. It can take years for some of us to clean up the mess thrown at us, for us, with us. No matter how long it takes, it happens when our inner vibration is glowing.
When we aren't looking, this is that one situation that we were waiting for; our big break into something: a career or financial endeavor, a new committed business partner. Whatever we had focused on, our uplifted vibes are bringing it in along with the cat's meow.
The one person that temps us to lower our values, and we don't know why. They feel us shining miles away like a beacon in the ocean waves. We were creeping in little by little to gain our trust. They feel it, too, and will say something that lets us know we're not overreacting—the twin flame journey, stories worth understanding.
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